In October 2019, Rachel Campos-Duffy and her husband, Sean Duffy, welcomed their ninth child, Valentina StellaMaris Duffy. Born a month early, Valentina arrived with Down syndrome and a heart condition that needed immediate attention. Rachel recalls the first moments vividly: “When she was born, I just held her and thought, ‘This is the sweetest, most perfect thing we have ever seen.’”
Despite the complications, Valentina showed her strength from the start.
Weeks in the NICU
Valentina spent seven weeks in the neonatal intensive care unit. Rachel describes this time as both frightening and humbling. She remembers the first moment she could hold Valentina free of wires and monitors, calling it “a small miracle in a very uncertain time.” Sean remained by her side, and the couple leaned on prayer and the support of their extended family. Rachel publicly acknowledged the outpouring of love: “We’re so thankful for your prayers.”
Life at Home
Bringing Valentina home brought a new learning curve. Rachel shared candid stories of her other children’s reactions, blending humor and tenderness. Her daughter Paloma, inspired by Valentina’s bravery, expressed an early interest in becoming a NICU nurse. Rachel noticed how her children, once absorbed in their routines, grew empathetic, patient, and more aware of small victories.
Sharing Milestones Publicly
One memorable moment came during a live broadcast of Fox & Friends Weekend for World Down Syndrome Day. Valentina, curious and determined, briefly showcased her pilates skills developed through physical therapy. Rachel beamed as she watched: “She’s as lovely, as precious, as joyful, as any other child. Her challenges are very treatable, but her spirit? That’s unstoppable.” The segment resonated with viewers, highlighting both Valentina’s resilience and the family’s openness about the highs and lows of raising a child with special needs.
Everyday Moments Made Extraordinary
Rachel emphasizes how Valentina’s arrival subtly but profoundly changed family life. Morning routines, homework, and sibling squabbles now carry an extra dimension of care. Small gestures—a sibling helping Valentina button her coat or Rachel and Sean celebrating her first independent steps—have become treasured milestones. Rachel calls these “ordinary days that suddenly feel extraordinary,” reflecting how Valentina deepens their appreciation for everyday life.
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Adventures and Growth
In August 2025, Rachel shared a heartwarming Instagram post showing Valentina surfing for the first time. The caption read, “Valentina’s first time surfing! #lakelife,” highlighting her adventurous spirit and the family’s commitment to embracing growth and joy at every opportunity.
Advocacy and Inspiration
Through interviews, live segments, and social media, Rachel continues to advocate for children with Down syndrome. She stresses that every child, regardless of medical or developmental challenges, deserves love, opportunities, and recognition for their unique gifts. “Valentina teaches us something new every day—about courage, joy, and the power of family,” she said.
